Aaron Neville has sung at the
Super Bowl and on some of
the most acclaimed stages
around the world.
But a small, unassuming
shrine in his native New Orleans
is where Neville gives his most
heartfelt performances. For it was
there where he got his life back
in order.
“Aaron Neville attributes a
personal healing to the Shrine of
St. Jude,” says Fr. Tony Rigoli, O.M.I.
the present pastor at the shrine
which has been operated by the
Missionary Oblates since 1918. “He has a great love for this place.”
Neville was born in 1941 in the Calliope Housing Project,
a notoriously violent neighborhood not too far from the shrine.
Neville’s mother, Amelia, was a devout Catholic who regularly
brought Aaron and his three brothers to pray to St. Jude at the
shrine run by the Missionary Oblates.
Neville also attended the nearby St. Monica School. The nuns
who ran the school received death threats from the Ku Klux Klan for
teaching African American kids. Neville said the nuns taught him the
importance of caring for others and how to express love.
As a young child Aaron enjoyed attending church and Catholic
school. But as a teenager he lost interest in religion as his life began
to spiral out of control. He started smoking marijuana in junior high,
and his substance abuse escalated to heroin in high school. He stole
cars and robbed jewelry stores.
Music was a way for Aaron and his brothers to escape their personal
hardships. They were active in the New Orleans music scene and
achieved some minor success. Then in 1966 Aaron recorded Tell It
Like It Is. The single burst up the national charts and eventually
became a number one hit. Aaron Neville was a star at age 25.
But his success was short-lived. The record company went broke
before Neville ever got paid for his hit song. Years of drug abuse and
chronic depression would follow. He hit rock bottom.
“I was pumped but too crazy to handle it all. My mind was a
traffic jam,” Neville explains.
Eventually the singer decided that he had to transform his life.
He had to find a place where he could rediscover the goodness of
God and the power of prayer. That place turned out to be St. Jude
Shrine back in his old neighborhood.
At the shrine Neville spent hours in prayer. He felt a special
relationship with St. Jude, the patron saint of lost causes and desperate
situations. He was lost and desperate, and credits the time he spent in
prayer at the shrine for healing him.
“One of my memories of Aaron at that time was that he had a
quiet presence at St. Jude’s,” says Fr. Ray John Marek, O.M.I. who
worked at the shrine and became a friend of Neville. “The people in
the community at St. Jude’s looked up to him, not because of his fame,
but because of his story, his struggle and his living past the struggle.”
Neville reunited with his siblings, and the Neville Brothers began
producing successful albums during the 1980s. They signed with two
major record labels and started to gain national recognition.
In gratitude for helping to turn his
life around, Neville gathered some of his
musical friends from New Orleans and
recorded an album of prayers and hymns
during two Midnight Masses at the
shrine. All of the proceeds and artist
royalties from the album, Midnight at
St. Jude’s, were donated to the St. Jude’s
Community Center located across the
street from the shrine. Today, the center
still provides a variety of social programs
for the poor and needy people of the area.
Neville re-launched his solo career and in 1989 he teamed with
Linda Ronstadt to record Don’t Know Much. The song was a huge hit
and earned Neville a Grammy Award for best Pop Vocal Group. He
would win three more Grammy Awards and receive 16 nominations.
As his fame and fortune grew, Neville became determined not to
return to the destructive lifestyle of his past. He remained committed
to his Catholic faith and prayer life. He dedicated each of his albums to
St. Jude. One of his earrings is a St. Jude medal. During his concerts
Neville has handed out tens of thousands of free rosaries to his fans.
“I always tell people I want to see the world through Jesus’ eyes,
and I want people to see Him in me,” says Neville.
While Neville doesn’t consider himself a preacher, his music has
touched the souls of people around the world for many years. He has
received letters from social workers in Britain who use his music as“spiritual medicine” for patients dealing with depression. At the
acclaimed Betty Ford Clinic the staff sometimes uses his music to
comfort people who are trying to overcome drug and alcohol addiction.
In 2005 Neville’s music was a source of comfort for the victims of
Hurricane Katrina. Neville lost his own home in the storm. Father
Marek had blessed the home when it was built as a favor for Neville
and his wife, Joel.
“They were very hospitable and down-to-earth, inviting me to
pull up a stool and visit for a bit,” says Fr. Marek. “That blessing was
an honor I won’t forget.”
Because of his strong faith Neville was able to see the hurricane
not just as a personal tragedy for him and the people of New Orleans,
but also as a blessing.
“This was a strange moment in my career,” says Neville. “My
profile and the profiles of my brothers were raised by the storm.
People all over the world saw us as the face of New Orleans. They
wanted to hear us play. They wanted to feel that we’ve survived the
storm. They wanted to be assured that life goes on.”
Aaron and Joel temporarily relocated to Tennessee after Katrina.
Soon after the relocation Neville suffered an even greater tragedy than the loss of his home, when his
beloved Joel passed away.
“Joel was a real source of
strength through all the difficulties
and hard times. She was very
petite, but she had a heart as big as
Aaron,” says Fr. Marek. “I think
it’s God’s grace and St. Jude’s
intercession that gave Aaron the
fortitude to weather the loss of
his wife and his beloved city.”
Neville continues to perform
around the world. His legacy is
secure as one of the most influential
singers of his generation. But he
still finds time to get back to
St. Jude Shrine to pray, offer thanks
and remember what is truly important in life.
Father Rigoli says Neville usually comes during the novena season
to sing at one of the Masses. It’s a big thrill for the people of St. Jude’s.
“I know that the people in the community recognize the grace
that is working in Aaron’s life is also working and active in their own
lives and struggles as well,” explains Fr. Marek. “Knowing Aaron’s
journey gives the people strength for their own ups and downs.”
Aaron Neville is a man of contrast.
He has the multi-tattooed body of a
football player, yet sings with a gentle
and angelic voice. His past is littered
with violence and destruction, but now
he gives freely of his time and energy to
help those who are less fortunate. Aaron
Neville is today in a good place.
“I feel more than an earthly love,” he
says. “I feel the force of God, the spirit
of all love.” |